Meet our featured beauty with brains Tula Tzoras, an actor, author, speaker and founder based in Sydney, Australia. She has spent her adult life in the media and entertainment industry. Between acting jobs, she also gained experience in the corporate arena in senior positions. Tula is a published author. She is the author of ‘THE TRUTH ABOUT ACTING’, which led to the publication of several articles in the ‘LEADERS IN HEELS’ and ‘TRUE NATURAL HEALTH’ magazines. After publishing articles on subjects such as Breathing, Anxiety, Heaven or Hell, Relationships, Tips for Happiness, Public Speaking, Obstacles to Inspiration and so on; Tula started speaking.
Her extraordinary life experience led her to spend a lot of time time on personal and spiritual growth, giving her a well-rounded education. On that journey she discovered she is an Empath and a Clair cognizant, connected to source and able to provide guided advice on any given subject. Tula Tzoras has since integrated Entertainment and Empowerment, her two passions, so that she can help people reach their full potential and in being who they really are. She is the founder of the Areti Goddess Events, and is on a mission to boost self-worth; entertaining and empowering women. Here is her story.
“My journey has kept me on the edge, overcoming many major challenges, my greatest gifts, putting me on a personal, spiritual and inspirational path and bringing me home.
Life …
In a permanent heightened state of anxiety
Quite beside myself
Trying to cope without my wings
‘Too sensitive’
Lost, like a scared little girl who wondered what she was missing
Acting, dealing with rejection
Health suffering
Finances fleeting
Heart broken, betrayed and betrayed
Constantly Moving, working, overachieving
Doing too much
Constant, Major life changes
Then…
I collapsed
First my mind, then my body
I lost everything
In the depths of depression, no light at the end of the tunnel
Diagnosed with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome
Helpless
My passion to empower people led me to head a humanitarian project to end poverty and suffering for many years, volunteer in the community, help indigenous girls improve their self esteem, establish a Facebook Page called Sustainable Solutions, a Facebook Group called How Can I Help, run for the seat of Sydney Federal Election 2016 for a small party because I believed it would empower people, not because I wanted to be a politician! My poetry is part of ‘Village Voices’ in Surry Hills. Now, its time to empower women with the Areti Goddess Events!”
We asked her some questions.
Q: What mindsets helped make you successful?
A: I like the idea of a bird with broken wings, because everything I have achieved in life, has been by overcoming ongoing obstacles. A lifetime of duress is now peaceful and serene. I guess I was lucky that the way my brain worked, rather than ask why, or why me in the face of adversity, for some reason I always asked, what now? This opened me up to inspiration and I became resourceful.
I discovered that there is always a silver lining, thanks to the law of polarity or opposites. Our self worth is impacted when we are but toddlers and our amygdala, the limbic region in our brain programs negative experiences, rendering us bound to choose experiences to validate our programming. For instance seeing a glass half empty rather than full. It is all a matter of perception, hence my belief that there is magic and we can create a Masterpiece for our life.
My personal and spiritual growth journey taught me to develop certain qualities that I believe transformed the experience. Some of these qualities include self-referral, self worth, non-judgement, acceptance, surrender, trust, gratitude, forgiveness and compassion. If we see the best in people, they usually show us their best. The world is a mirror. Our inner life is constantly reflected back to us. So if we are angry, we encounter aggression for instance. I am a firm believer that what we give, we give ourselves and what we withhold, we deny ourselves.
I subscribe to collaboration over competition. The Ego always asks, ‘what’s in it for me?’ I run with spirit, always asking “How can I help?’
Q: How did you deal with and learn from failure?
A: As an Actor, you are rejected a million times. That was my most valuable lesson. Going from second-guessing and punishing myself to self-referral, knowing I do my best and that is all I can do. Learning how to let go! After all we can only do our best!
I have had situations where funding has fallen through on a project at the last minute or people I have relied on have cancelled without notice. I don’t take no for an answer, if I believe something will happen, I make it so. I think that is why my signature speech is Obstacles to Inspiration!
I don’t believe in failure. Every ‘failure’ is an opportunity to grow. I think the most frightening issue we have is resignation.
Q: What are your personal and professional goals? Have you achieved them?
A: I am happy with what I have achieved so far professionally. My goal now is to make the Areti Goddess Events a huge success to empower women because we are amazing! Half of our middle-aged women have less than 10k in Superannuation. One in four of us are abused in an intimate relationship, more than half of us are obese with health issues and we are still paid less than men. This is Australia today!
Sometimes we don’t realise that the heart of every issue is self worth. By boosting self worth and giving every Goddess all the tools she needs, we aim to foster a thriving economy of power entrepreneurs in amazing relationships with all and great health.
On a personal level, I am so grateful for the person I have become. I am happy and strive to be my best on every level. One of my obstacles has been health, an area I work on with great commitment. Another has been intimate relationship, something I have spent years working on within myself. I can happily now say, I am ready to share my life in a divine relationship. After all, I am a work of art, always in progress! Isn’t there a saying that we die when we stop learning? I have decided that life begins at 50!
Feel free to check out her website http://www.tulatzoras.com
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